Secret Behind Men Cry

 Restoration of the Soul

Women want men who are sensitive, as well as strong. Most people, especially due to the values ​​of the family, consider a man cry like finding the weakness of men. The man is always expected to be strong even to hold his emotions, unlike women who cry to express their emotions freely.

"Men tend to change compared to 20 years ago. Gender roles are not as tight as the past, and the change rate of the economy makes some men showed no macho side. Men also easily express his emotions by crying. But many people still can not accept this change, and this is why men do not get sympathy while crying, "said clinical psychologist Michael Diamond, PhD, who is also author of the book My Father Before Me.

The more mature men age, they tend to be more comfortable with themselves, and have an orientation that emphasizes the relationship with high sensitivity. Men become no matter what anyone says if you see her cry, as long as feels comfortable, therefore, added Diamond. This character can also be seen as a power guy.

Experts nonverbal Joe Navarro, author of Louder Than Words discover the meaning behind the man cries while watching the scene when some world leaders cry, such as:

* Wyclef Jean (actor / singer), reacted with tears when allegations came behind his charitable acts. His eyes showed how he was fighting the pain deep, Navarro analysis.

* Roger Federer, who lost in the final game in 2008. This guy deep down that shows emotion, with reddened eyes and nose. This only happens when he actually cried.

* President Barack Obama, a day after the death of his grandmother. Changes to his face shows anguish.

* South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford, who cried after admitting infidelity. The emotion that comes from emotion caught cheating and guilt are difficult to distinguish, and this is what appears in tears.

* Jake Pavelka, participants contest Dancing with the Stars were eliminated in episode 10. A vacant look in his eyes showed much anguish. Shape thin eyebrows indicate the conditions experienced discomfort and pain.

MensHealth.com mention why men cry more because of the death of a pet that is considered as a friend (33 percent), for women (20 percent), touched the baby's birth (16 percent), cheated (15 percent), a sad movie (8 percent) , physical pain (6 percent), and marriage (2 percent)